The guide to getting over a breakup

Published by

on

Taking Your Energy and Power Back

There’s a moment after a breakup where everything feels heavy — like you’re carrying the weight of what was, what could’ve been, and what you lost.
But this moment is also your turning point. This is where you take your energy and power back and start shifting into the woman you were always meant to be.
And here’s the twist: when you truly focus on yourself, that’s exactly when your ex starts noticing your absence more than your presence.


💗 Stop Chasing What Hurt You

After a breakup, the instinct is to fix, chase, explain, and reach out.
But in those moments, your energy isn’t grounded — it’s desperate. And desperation pushes people further away every single time.

When you stop trying to pull back what walked away, you start pulling yourself together.

🌸 Focusing on Yourself Is the Real Magnetism

Something powerful happens when you shift the attention off him and onto you. When you:

  • Rebuild your routines
  • Pour into your mind, body, and spirit
  • Reconnect with your feminine energy
  • Become a woman who knows her worth

When you return to yourself, your vibration changes.
And exes feel that shift — not through texts, but through your silence and evolution.

💅 The Inner (and Outer) Glow-Up

This glow-up isn’t about him. It’s about coming home to yourself.

  • Move your body because strength feels better than sadness
  • Feed yourself nourishing food because you deserve to feel alive
  • Switch up your hair, style, makeup — express your rebirth
  • Step into your soft girl era, but stay in your power

Your silence and transformation say more than any “we need to talk” ever could.

🌙 Healing Isn’t Linear, But It’s Worth It

Some days you’ll feel strong. Some days you’ll miss him. Some days you’ll want to reach out.
But every moment you invest in yourself gives you a little more of your energy back.

And then one day, you wake up calmer, happier, fuller.
That’s the day you stop wanting your ex back —
and strangely enough, that’s usually the exact moment he starts wondering where you went.

✨ The Biggest Truth

If he comes back, it will be because you changed.
If he doesn’t, it’s because you outgrew him.

Either way — you win.

You are a woman who knows that love starts within.
And when you take your energy and power back, no breakup can break you again.


Leave a comment