Glowminded

Let’s have some real talk, bestie. How many times have you sat there, waiting for a text back, convincing yourself he’s just so busy? Spoiler: he’s not. Nobody is too busy to show effort for someone they truly want. If a man can post on Instagram, binge Netflix, or go out with his boys, he has the time to text you back. The truth? He’s just not that into you—and you deserve to stop making excuses for him.

💔 The Classic Excuses We Tell Ourselves

“He’s working a lot right now.” → But he somehow finds time for everyone else. “He’s just bad at texting.” → Translation: he’s not interested enough to keep the conversation alive. “He needs space.” → A man who likes you will want to be in your space. Period.

🚩 The Reality Check

When a guy is into you, you’ll know it. He won’t leave you guessing, refreshing your messages like it’s a lottery ticket. He’ll want to talk to you, see you, and make you feel special. Anything less is not a scheduling conflict—it’s a lack of effort.

✨ Signs He’s Actually Into You (No Excuses Needed)

He makes time, even if he’s busy. A quick “thinking of you” text takes 5 seconds. He initiates plans. Not just vague “we should hang,” but actual dates. He’s consistent. No disappearing acts, no breadcrumbing—just real effort. He prioritizes you. If he likes you, you’ll never feel like an afterthought.

👑 The Bottom Line

Stop romanticizing his excuses. If he wanted to, he would—and if he doesn’t, then he’s showing you exactly where you stand. And babe? You’re way too valuable to sit around waiting for a man who can’t even send a text.

So stop giving “busy” boys the benefit of the doubt. Delete the excuses, keep your crown straight, and remember: the right man will never make you wonder how he feels. ✨