Situationships. They sound fun, casual, and no-pressure… until you realize you’re emotionally invested and he’s still “not ready for a relationship.” Sis, let’s call it what it is: he’s keeping you around for convenience while giving you just enough to stop you from leaving. And guess what? That’s not cute—it’s manipulation.
đźš© What Exactly Is a Situationship?
A situationship is that messy in-between space where you’re basically acting like a couple—dates, sleepovers, late-night talks—but without any actual commitment. He’ll tell you he “likes things the way they are” because, surprise: he gets the benefits of a relationship without the responsibility of one.
💔 Signs You’re Stuck in a Situationship
He avoids labels. The moment you ask “What are we?” he dodges the question. Plans are always last-minute. He never schedules ahead—just “u up?” texts. He doesn’t talk about the future. Vacations? Holidays? Meeting the family? Nope. You’re confused more than you’re happy. If you’re constantly second-guessing where you stand, that’s not love—it’s limbo. He keeps his options open. He wants exclusivity from you, but won’t commit himself.
✨ Why Situationships Hurt More Than You Think
They feel exciting at first—until you realize you’re giving your heart to someone who only wants half of you. You deserve clarity, consistency, and commitment, not mixed signals that leave you crying to your bestie at 2 a.m.
đź‘‘ The Glow-Up Exit Plan
Stop accepting crumbs. If he’s not all in, he’s out. Know your worth. You are the prize, not the placeholder. Walk away with confidence. The right man won’t “kinda sorta” want you—he’ll claim you fully.
đź’Ś The Bottom Line
A situationship is just a slow heartbreak dressed up as casual fun. Don’t let him waste your time under the excuse of “not ready.” If he wanted you in his life for real, you’d already know.
So, sis—ditch the situationship and make space for someone who actually deserves you. ✨
Glowminded 
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